The Talk about Nothingness
How to deal with the obnoxious doubts that come to our mind uninvited, occasionally when we try to accomplish a small goal to keep ourself motivated for few days making way out of this seemingly busy life ,it's either us who are losing the momentum of linear life or it's our integrity to remain sane during this whole time.
The worst part is neither of these results helps us to sort out this problem; but instead they leave weight for the already piling up Numb emotions.
One of the reason why numbness of thoughts or the feeling of feeling nothing many times taken lightly in our social norms is because it's Ineffable nature of existence, how come we understand this problem if the person has no thoughts and yet he is trying hard to pretend being thoughtful, and while doing this he will have to certainly go through many rough days of mentally being tortured by series of questionings from people we know, like
'why are you being so silent always? '
'Is there any thing we are unable to provide you? '
'You have everything to be happy in this life, learn to be content, stop pretending to be a victim'
And it all ends with some classic punch lines like 'have you got any idea; millions of people out there are having dreams of having a life that you're living right now'. Well I guess this all could be true in a different perspective but defending what a person holding in terms of mental pressure is totally a stupid idea while you address his physical possessions, it's like you are addressing his position or designation instead of talking to him as a human being.
Before it gets too late or beyond repair stage, one should have a talk to their loved ones or can seek for professional help. No matter how hard it feels, you can be anyone a student, a janitor, shop owner, teacher any one, the original idea of solving problem through talking is profoundly proven infinite times. And in this peculiar yet universal case of mental problem where a person can't explain what is going through inside his mind or in other words he/she is feeling nothingness; all the point I made above can help like nothing else.
Be happy.
Adieu
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